Keep believing only god can judge you if you want to. Meanwhile, your children are paying attention to everything you do. Yes, your children may love you dearly but respect you barely. They respect your title and the fact they don’t have the ability to fend for themselves yet. They see your actions. They know when you’re lying to them. Your children know when you’re trying to ditch them. Some of you expect loyalty from your children, but put them off on someone else the first chance you get.